~LoVe~

(Gambar dari Mr. Google)

 From Bridget Menezes

Seeing the virtue in others

What is love? Love is knowing deep down that if I help others, I am only helping myself.  If I harm another, I am only injuring myself.  When we realise that we can live together in harmony, conversely, if we love one another and see the positive points of others, then we are laying the foundation for a strong, loving society.

Often, we exaggerate the defects of others and highlight our good points.  We should in fact appreciate the virtues of others and praise them.  No one is perfect.  No matter how many defects a person may have, he would still have at least one virtue and we should learn to see it.  True love for others enables them to be free from their weaknesses.  There is a desire to see them improve.  Their negativity is not repeated to the self or to others.  There is also genuine love and concern to help the other person recognise his own specialities.  He is encouraged to use them for his own benefit.  For me, love is a gift that is free from anticipation.  There are no special conditions.  The deepest level is a selfless desire for others' happiness.  I infuse this warmth into everything I do.  I listen with my heart, and to the heart.  I let everyone know of the loveliness I see.

Ha, aku mmg suke kumpul seme article Bridget nih, kdg2 sebenarnya, seme nye very simple & bole diramal, but still ada ramai yg terlupa @ maybe x brp nak ingt hal2 yg remeh camnih.  Bagi aku, Love tu, very simbolik, susah nak dinyatakan dgn perkataan ayat melebar2 tp cukup dgn perbuatan yg menunjukkan kearah itu.  Love tu x semestinye utk kekasih, suami, tp bole pergi ke sesiapa, even mcm tom yot......:)